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    Let me add to that: I don't always have problems with mixed gender, genital examinations.
    But there must be relation of trust and respect between doctor and patient.

    In the past I had a female doctor examine my penis.
    She was also young, just a few years older than me, but I knew her, she was my doctor for some years and she was a very caring and respectful professional, I did not feel awkward at all back then.
    If anyone felt a little awkward it was her, and I admit I am quite the pervert, but I behaved perfectly, because I did not want to make her feel awkward or disrespect her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mick_sl8ter View Post
    She also told me that my balls are fucking damaged permanently.
    I knew shit was damaged, you don't need to be einstein to figure that out, but still when someone who is a medical doctor shows it to you, it is kind of confrontational.
    I will be worried only about this statement. Damaged testicle it is a serious condition. The part with a woman examining your testicles is irrelevant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mick_sl8ter View Post
    I would feel uncomfortable with a guy if he was an arrogant bastard / dickface like some doctors are. And then I have to subject myself to such a bastard by lowering my pants, that would make me feel uncomfortable.
    But this male doctor is just a normal nice guy, I feel he respects me, I respect him. Just 2 guys, no uncomfortable feelings there. He has to take a look, no problem, go ahead, its over before anyone feels awkward.

    But this female doctor had terrible attitude: I am your doctor, you must do as I say, you are now in my office. She was probably thinking: I own you bitch !
    And then she takes her time, she wants to let you know who is in control here, while she examines your balls. And when you feel completely humiliated, and you have accepted your fate, she tells you with great satisfaction that you can get dressed now.

    At that point you are not sure how you feel, you have been disrespected, you have lost part of your value as a human being. And you think it is not fair. Life should not be like this. For a brief moment you consider suicide, because somewhere a long the way you must have failed in life, to let it come to this and be humiliated by a girl like this... and then you snap out of it, and just continue your miserable life.

    I think patients should have choice in doctors, when it comes to these kind of visits. Nobody should have to be put in such a situation.
    You need medical attention, sure, but does that mean you have to become someones bitch ? And they can shit on you ?
    I say fuck that !

    If I was not drugged and so weak at that moment, I would have never let this happen to me. And I will never let this happen to me again, no matter how bad I am in need of medical attention.
    You concluded it perfectly. The factor of gender domination is present in incidents like that. When a female doctor acquires this kind of power over a male patient it is her chance to subjugate him by compelling him to undress and accept her authority in ways that deliberately ridicule and humiliate him.

    Of course patients should have choice in doctors in these kind of visits and I'm sure that there would be no way for them to force you if you refused to follow her when she called you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tobby View Post
    You concluded it perfectly. The factor of gender domination is present in incidents like that. When a female doctor acquires this kind of power over a male patient it is her chance to subjugate him by compelling him to undress and accept her authority in ways that deliberately ridicule and humiliate him.

    Of course patients should have choice in doctors in these kind of visits and I'm sure that there would be no way for them to force you if you refused to follow her when she called you.
    That's dumb. If you go in complaining about your testicles, the doctor needs to see and feel your testicles. If you don't want that to happen then feel free to walk out or not go in the first place. You can't claim they are 'compelling' you to do something when you are the one ASKING for an exam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jabby View Post
    That's dumb. If you go in complaining about your testicles, the doctor needs to see and feel your testicles. If you don't want that to happen then feel free to walk out or not go in the first place. You can't claim they are 'compelling' you to do something when you are the one ASKING for an exam.
    Your reasoning is valid, but you missed the description of the situation here.
    Key is freedom of choice. The right to not be put in a situation where you feel you have no other choice than to comply, even though you feel strongly against it.

    In my dictionary, tricking another person into an unwanted genital examination, knowing they are temporarily weakened and drugged, using medical authority is abuse.

    Your claim is correct that I came for a medical exam ! That was by my choice, correct ! But I had an appointment with a specific doctor.
    It can not be justified that I was not informed, that another doctor would see me.
    Patients should be informed and given a choice to accept such a change, so the appointment can be rescheduled or canceled.
    Especially when examination of genitalia is involved.

    E.g. : When you make an appointment for a massage. And instead of your regular masseur, all of a sudden you are confronted with Bubba.
    (Sterotype strong aggressive black homosexual rap1st, most commonly found in US prisons )
    You (and most people) would make a run for it ! Unless you like violent anal sex :-)
    We can all accept this right ?
    And you do not have to know if this large black man is a homosexual rap1st, all that matters is that you feel very uncomfortable with him touching you half naked.
    Because your freedom of choice as a client, is more important than Bubba's right to work as a masseur.

    Now you might claim, I had that choice, I could just have refused to be subjugated in that situation.
    Then you truly do not understand the pervers medical culture, the unbalance in power between patient / doctor.
    Especially in hospitals where they still have a strong hierarchical structure, almost like military.
    Where doctors decide everything and the rest of the staff is considered a lesser human being.
    We as patients are not considered clients, we are considered live stock, that need treatment.
    Patients have no say, they need to accept whatever the doctors decide, and be very thankful about it.
    I no longer accept it ! I hope more people will folow my example, so this bizar travesty ends soon !
    Pornography = boring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mick_sl8ter View Post
    E.g. : When you make an appointment for a massage. And instead of your regular masseur, all of a sudden you are confronted with Bubba.
    (Sterotype strong aggressive black homosexual rap1st, most commonly found in US prisons )
    You (and most people) would make a run for it ! Unless you like violent anal sex :-)
    We can all accept this right ?
    But you were in an opposite situation with a female gently touching your abused testicles.
    You are afraid by homosexual rap1st, but you are requesting to be touched by a male doctor.
    There is a chance that this doctor to be homosexual and to have an erection while checking your private parts.
    Still, you can do this request next time:
    "I do not want to be touch by a woman, only by a man and I am aware that is possible to encounter a homosexual rap1st man"

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    Quote Originally Posted by sebi40 View Post
    Still, you can do this request next time:
    "I do not want to be touch by a woman, only by a man and I am aware that is possible to encounter a homosexual rap1st man"
    LOL , ok that is funny ! :-)
    I think this is getting all a bit off topic. So lets end it here.

    The reason I sometimes videotape events or write down stuff is because I have a 'special' brain.
    Over time automatically all negative events are erased from my memory.
    And I change other events so they best fit the way I would like things to be. That is how I get by in my life .

    Chances are in a few weeks I might not remember what actually happened versus what my version of the truth is
    Pornography = boring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mick_sl8ter View Post
    We as patients are not considered clients, we are considered live stock, that need treatment.
    I've been there myself and reached the same conclusion, incidents like the one you described are a fine example.
    Good to see that not everybody is willing to accept this shitty attitude.

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    Twana L Sparks M.D.

    Quote Originally Posted by tobby View Post
    I've been there myself and reached the same conclusion, incidents like the one you described are a fine example.
    Good to see that not everybody is willing to accept this shitty attitude.

    When you read it, you will shit bricks.


    http://www.outpatientsurgery.net/res...e_1001_ent.pdf

    She works as a Ear, Nose Troat surgeon and she has been molesting male patients for many years now , and still she is not FIRED !


    Dr. Sparks, then chief of staff at the hospital, had just finished performing a tympanoplasty with mastoidectomy on a Hispanic male in his mid-30s. After applying
    the dressing, Dr. Sparks threw back the covers on the patient, reached into the fly of his boxer shorts, pulled out his penis and held it in her ungloved hand toward the ceiling. Dr. Sparks noticed fluid-filled vesicles indicative of a sexually transmitted disease on the right side of the shaft and yelled, “Oh, gross!”
    She then slapped the head of the penis 3 times to shouts of, “Bad boy , bad boy , bad boy.” The all-female OR team laughed. All except Ms. Garner.
    “Everyone heard her and everyone saw her positioned in the location of the penis at the OR table,” say Ms. Garner. “I gave all of them the fish eye and we said nothing.”


    The nurse Ms. Garner is now without a job ! OMG !!!
    Pornography = boring.

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    Prank with balls

    Listen up guys : you all know me , overall I am a nice guy, but I am also a perverted weirdo and at times mentally unbalanced.
    I would like your advice on something, because I want to pull a prank.
    And frankly I am way out of touch with reality to know what is acceptable, so please let me know what you think !

    I have another appointment, where my balls are scheduled for medical examination.
    Remember I told you I fucked a female veterinarian: http://femaledom.com/forum/showthrea...ery-happy-now-!

    She is willing to provide me with some fresh dog testicles put in a jar.

    My plan: when I go to see the doctor, and she asks me to walk with her and undress, I tell her that it won't be necessary, then I pull out the jar with testicles and put it on her desk
    LOL I would love to see her reaction ! Would she for a moment seriously think that I put my cut off testicles in a jar for her to examine ? LOL

    Even though it would be hilarious, I also feel it might cause problems, or that I might offend her as a professional. What you say ? Crossing the line ? Or hilarious ?
    Pornography = boring.

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    I am not weirdo enough to give You the green light for this prank Mick.
    Perhaps she has an acceptable sense of umor and you can both start laughing over.
    In this case, once finished the examination she could ... arrive with another empty jar....

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    How is gone Mick ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selftailer View Post
    How is gone Mick ?
    Ahhh nothing happened, I asked the girl behind the desk if a male doctor could check my balls.
    I have enough crazy stuff going on in my life right now, so I decided to let this one pass
    Pornography = boring.

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    embarrassing medical exam performed by a woman is great!
    i will post a real story in next days

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    Pornography = boring.

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