Originally Posted by
mick_sl8ter
I would feel uncomfortable with a guy if he was an arrogant bastard / dickface like some doctors are. And then I have to subject myself to such a bastard by lowering my pants, that would make me feel uncomfortable.
But this male doctor is just a normal nice guy, I feel he respects me, I respect him. Just 2 guys, no uncomfortable feelings there. He has to take a look, no problem, go ahead, its over before anyone feels awkward.
But this female doctor had terrible attitude: I am your doctor, you must do as I say, you are now in my office. She was probably thinking: I own you bitch !
And then she takes her time, she wants to let you know who is in control here, while she examines your balls. And when you feel completely humiliated, and you have accepted your fate, she tells you with great satisfaction that you can get dressed now.
At that point you are not sure how you feel, you have been disrespected, you have lost part of your value as a human being. And you think it is not fair. Life should not be like this. For a brief moment you consider suicide, because somewhere a long the way you must have failed in life, to let it come to this and be humiliated by a girl like this... and then you snap out of it, and just continue your miserable life.
I think patients should have choice in doctors, when it comes to these kind of visits. Nobody should have to be put in such a situation.
You need medical attention, sure, but does that mean you have to become someones bitch ? And they can shit on you ?
I say fuck that !
If I was not drugged and so weak at that moment, I would have never let this happen to me. And I will never let this happen to me again, no matter how bad I am in need of medical attention.