The chatroom at http://www.kramtoad.com/chat4.html can be lots of fun, but it is mostly geared towards gay male/male ballbusting. I've had some really worthwhile chats there though, some exciting, some deep and quite interesting.

Some of the useful features there:

- registration of a unique username is required;
- usernames have to be requested (motivated, by mail) from the moderator;
- there is a shared chatroom, but most users go one-on-one for chats;
- anyone (once registered) can invite you to chat, but it is really easy to ignore or ban a user for a particular session;
- no logging (or persistence) of what is being said during a chat, which makes it a lot more 'private'
and spontaneous than any forum or board...

In my experience ladies and girls get inundated though... even there, on a gay site!

It might help to have chatrooms or chatspaces 'by invitation only', so the owner or moderator of the room can decide whom to alllow in - and female moderator(s) would be great fun obviously!

O.


Quote Originally Posted by Rebecca View Post
I'd join a BB chatroom. I think that would be cool!
There would be two problems though, and too much of either would make me stop using it.

One would be the guys who absolutely flood us women for requests to fulfill their fantasies. I'll accept a little bit of that, but I'm there for me, not to provide stroke material for some guy I don't know.

The other is the guys who will come on there and attack women for being into BB. Had it happen before. Because we like BB, we're suddenly man-haters who circumcise boys because of our contempt for all males.

If such a chatroom was moderated to prevent abuse, I think it would be great!

Rebecca