Dear Altamesa,

I wrote a story on the subject you are talking about. Only this is about penectomy. But it covers the subject. I am planning to write more on the male behavior and mind in the second part. But the exciting part is that the female wants it, or better wants to play like she wants it. I haven't got a clou how such things emerge the first time in a man's or woman's mind. Freud might have had some idea's.
http://www.eunuch.org/Alpha/H/ea_131559heavenly.htm