OK, here is the strait n skinny. As a receiver of kicks punches and squeezes from women, I prefer to be naked with the ladies clothed. It is more humiliating to the men to have their ballz hanging and vulnerable with the women clothed and powerful. As a viewer of such videos, I prefer the same. You KNOW that the ballz are really being busted. There is no humiliation on the ladies part.
There is nothing gay about it.