Read about Pandora's Box (NYC dungeon) where you can get your balls busted but interviewed doms complained about clients who tell them what they want rather than just treat them like some sort of goddess or something.

I'm particular about how I want my balls busted and am not into boot licking, domination, and so on. And I'd be paying. I'm the customer. I don't care if she puts on an act, just put on an act I want. (In my dreams, a woman who loved me would want to hit my balls and get wet by hitting my balls before we had sex --- instead, I've only had sex which is all well and good but I can't tell gf's I want my balls busted --- trust me, I've tried some baby steps. Most don't want to hear it and find it weird.)

Can i tell a dom what I want and have her listen to me? From what I've read, no. Or maybe I'm misinformed.