I wasn't meaning to interview them on camera, just get their general feedback. kind of like you did in the response.
It is understandable for them to fear people thinking badly of them, women are taught that they are to not do things like that....

For me it is all about having fun between the two participants, usually ends up being kind of a game... her trying to get me to admit defeat... and me trying to not admit that I am done. I like for it to always stay fun and for each of us to laugh and enjoy ourselves. My ex found it fun because it was so out of the norm, something so taboo, and because I liked it.