Venomous Beetle,
For what it's worth, I have to say that I agree with you. The step from femdom fantasy to literal and very real hatred towards a particular group (in this case, men) should be a huge one, yet it does seem to collide with "our" interests for certain individuals. That aforementioned hate against an entire section of society simply because of an accident of birth is disgusting and worrying regardless of the group concerned. As far as my own proclivities are concerned, I personally prefer a kind of "teasing" or "cheeky" ********** play, rather than the cliched "men are worms" material that seems to turn some people on. All the dominant women I have known and had relationships with are perfectly affable and "normal" in their dealings with men outside the bedroom. That is as it should be. What happens within one's own four walls is one's own affair, and sexuality, although hugely important, is but one facet of our existence and make-up as human beings. Still, each to their own.
Best wishes,
Venator