Isn't that something, all of us (male or female) would wish for? That women control their men by controlling their genitals? In this thread we can share our ideas how life would be like then...
No. I want to lead in my marriage. Her playing with my balls is for fun and pleasure, serving me as she plays with my genitals.
Of course, I'm very willing to play with hers and help her with lots of orgasms.