Originally Posted by
helios
Yes, these are very good points you make. I am pretty much in complete agreement with you, though there are undoubtedly people who find this approach less sexy than the dominant(!) mode of the woman kicking etc and the man pretending he doesn't enjoy it. Of course this should not be confused with not feeling any pain - I think part of what Brother Love does so well is to show how turned on he is by it, but also that it is hurting him.
If anyone remembers Knackers work (which was great in many respects), you will remember how even the fiercest abuse didn't seem to phase him. In fact, I think he started to act more as time went on, responding to feedback that he wasn't showing enough reaction.
Also, without being too critical of Femaledom (whose work I own and enjoy - and who also provide the best forum on the internet!) I do tire somewhat of the reactions of the men in their films - the continual "Bitch, bitch" dialogue, and much time spent seemingly batting the women away - I tend to feel, 'well, if you really aren't enjoying it, let someone else have a go!'...
A final point: Brother Love is also great because he captures some of the intimacy of a ballbusting session with a partner - there is experimentation, and maybe because it is porn, rather than BDSM or SM, there is an inbuilt idea like 'hey, maybe those involved should look like they enjoy what they're doing'.
I too apologise for rambling/ranting
helios
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