I've never had blue balls, I don't think. I've been really horny and a little congested down there, but never to the point of blue balls.

My wife isn't usually horny. I want sex more than she does, and ask for it before she gets horny, usually. Maybe two or three times a year she will ask for sex, grab me, etc. I enjoy it when she does.

Today was one of those days. We haven't been having sex because she is pregnant, and she is going to the doc to get checked out. She says it takes several days for sperm to clean out, and she doesn't want to be messy for her examination. Plus, she's had morning sickness and hasn't felt well some times when I've asked her for sex. So its been a while.

This morning, she was horny. We ended up doing it standing up for a few minutes. I can usually hold off until she has a few orgasms, but with standing up, and being so horny, and how hot the situation was, I was getting close, so I told her. She wanted to wait till tonight. She didn't want to let me come because she wanted me that hard. We did it again, again stopping before either of us found any release.

I don't have blue balls, but the situation did leave me horny. I don't want to experiment with blue balls since I don't know if my wife would release me. Solo play doesn't appeal to me. Maybe some guys just don't get blue balls, and I am one of them, or maybe I just get released often enough for it not to be a problem.

I would imagine it would be 'fun' to get some serious blue balls and then have her spank them or squeeze them really good like she does sometimes when she is giving me a handjob. Have any of you guys experienced that? Do you have to get 'busted' lightly when this happens, or do you just take the same amount of punishment? Does ball busting feel better on blue balls than regular 'colored' ones?