Quote Originally Posted by bbbb View Post
Would you be ok with men laughing at a woman who was tortured in a similar manner - and laugh along with them, in a nice, friendly, relaxed way? Perhaps over a cup of tea with a cucumber sandwich?

I understand, but this isn't about a woman/man with a fetish - this is about a woman torturing a man for no reason aside that he wanted divorce from her... given her obvious issues, I can't say I blame him for wanting a divorce.

Then you don't know your history.. Women have been sexist towards men for just as long as men have been sexist to women - the difference is, men's sexism is demonized while women's sexism is applauded in today's culture.

Revenge implies he somehow 'deserved' this - that she is somehow justified in her torturing and mutilation - wrong.

Ahh, so men who laugh at r.aped women's stories are acceptable so long as they tell us that some woman done them wrong at some point in their past - right?

Now you're just be ridiculous. So if women will just join laughing at a female rap.e-victims might save a other women being r.aped, right?

If you knew your history, you'd know who brought on the holy war - but you've already demonstrated your ignorance in this area more than clearly.
All your arguments are good in terms of moral and justice and probably we SHOULD live that way.

But I would like to know from you why you are here - only for discussion and "opening other's eyes" or do you feel strangely aroused sometimes for some fetishes shown and discussed here? I never stated sadomasochism is a good human virtue. But you deny its reality. Explain sadomasochism to me, please. I tried to explain it to you and that not all people who feel aroused advocate it. Would you also please explain which level of sadomasochistic humor is acceptable and which not? What kind of joke is permissible, where are the borders? What kind of thought is allowed and what kind of thought should be suppressed (by what means)?

For your comparisons of sexism in females and males. The kind of and target of sexism from both sides varies as the sexes vary (and that is the special reason I usually get more arousal out of "femdom" sexism than from "maledom" sexism, but that's personal fetish). A woman laughing about an emasculation story even might not be a sadomasochist, keep in mind that laughing is also an expression of surprise. It is paranoid thinking then that really all of these women are your enemies and really want you tortured just because they laugh. Probably all should stand up and protest immediately? OK, but why don't you prohibit stupid talkshows in general then? Yes, they ARE stupid and deleterious for weak brains.

If a man beats or kills his wife for wanting to get divorced, usually you do not laugh because it is the supposed strong who beats the supposed weak. The other way, there is this kind of David against Goliath surprise, which might add to a laughter of surprise. I people laugh over such a case, they do not laugh over the special case, as the circumstances and conditions for an attack might be boring or sad, nothing to identify with. The identification is always on a more general basis and interpretation is about the "typical" male and female weaknesses. And it might be in our genes that we like winning and laugh at the loosers. Try what works better for you, denying or accepting and coping with it. Or, like on forums and porn like this: play with it.