not if you do that same exact thing, let her catch you looking at these sites. she might be mad for looking at other girls but she might make it more painfull then.
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not if you do that same exact thing, let her catch you looking at these sites. she might be mad for looking at other girls but she might make it more painfull then.
This isn't directly about "how to get kicked".
But it's a way to introduce your partner to ballbusting in general, without risking being regarded as "weird".
In that classic book called "Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex -- But Were Afraid To Ask", it says that most men are very favorably stimulated by having the woman squeeze his balls when he's near orgasm. That famous sex guide-book only cautions that overdoing it by squeezing too hard will stop things cold.
For guys, it might be a good idea to get a copy of that book, underline, highlight, circle, or mark that paragraph, and show it to their partner.
Maybe even give her a copy to read at her leisure in privacy, because that book really is educational.
It's a respectable, mainstream, educational book that gives tips for both genders, not some "sleazy" fetish book for "weirdos". It's not something that book stores keep hidden "under the counter". It's respectable and written by a doctor.
It shows your partner that it's normal, and that it's something worth trying.
From there, you can gradually get your partner to increase the intensity, over a period of days, weeks or months.
After this kind of introduction to testicle stimulation, you can get into variations like kicking, hitting, or whatever it is that turns you on most.
Knowing that it's "normal" makes it acceptable to experiment with.
In the past, I've sometimes showed that part of that book to boyfriends, and asked them if they'd like to give it a try. Most agree, since the doctor who wrote the book says that most men find it pleasurable.
It's just a matter of time and experimenting to find out how far they want it taken.
I was surprised when I first read that, about 10 years ago (I was about 16).
But it's a fact.
Most guys do like it ! (At least to a certain intensity.)
From that to more severe treatment of the testicles ("ballbusting") is only a matter of degree. With some experimentation, over time you can get your partner into styles of ballbusting that you'll both enjoy.
Just be openly communicative and tell each other what you like, what you don't like, and what might be fun to try next time.
Guys? Just don't carry the book around to show to girls at nightclubs and parties, OK? Hee, hee!
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About the book:
"Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex but Were Afraid to Ask"
by David R. Reuben, M.D.
(It has nothing to do with the Woody Allen movie with the same name.)
It has sold over 30 million copies since it first came out about 30 years ago.
The version available now in stores has been updated and changed a lot, but I assume and hope that it still includes the advice on squeezing balls. (But I'm not sure.)
If you want to look for it, here's the information:
Hardcover: 368 pages
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers; All new ed., (January 1, 1999)
The most recent softcover version is:ISBN: 0553231677
Publisher: Bantam Books; Reissue edition (June 1, 1982)
At places like Amazon.com you can get either version, new or used, as well as previous editions all the way back to 1969, at cheap prices, with international shipping available.
If you're lucky, your local library might even have an older copy available.
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- Sara
How to get busted by your girlfriend:Originally Posted by high_voice
Just ask. Tell her what you like, explain as best you can why you want it, and, if necessary, negotiate and accept any fall-back position you can get (example: she should agree to hold them, at least -- maybe spend a few weeks or however long it takes just encouraging her to grab and hold your balls when you are alone, and work your way up from there).
I have never had a sex partner turn me down when I ask to get kicked in the nuts. That isprobably partly because, with some women, I says to myself: "Self, this one isn't going to do it. Don't bother to ask." Maybe I cheated myself out of a bust on those occasions; maybe I was right and I avoided some embarrassment for us both. ("You want to to do WHAT!?!"). But, let's take a close look at my success ratio in the times when i asked:
100%
As a general rule, chicks LOVE kicking guys in the balls. Why? Well, so far as I can figure it, it's 'cuz they're a bunch of sickos -- just like men! Unlike men, of course, they lack upper body strength, and lack the peculiar vulberability of having two hyper-sensitive internal organs hanging outside of the abdominal wall.
The ones I consider ";ess sicko" usually give me a really queer look and ask something like, "uhhhh... doesn't that... you know... hurt?"
It's an awkward conversation, but this is my advice:
HAVE SOME BALLS, DAMNIT! If you want to get a knee between the legs, ask. If you want to get kicked but not really really hard, ask her about times she's kicked guys before, and choose a reaction that she once got from one guy and say, "That! About that hard! Can you do that, honey?"
The worst thing that ever happened to me, technically, is I ran into a chick who is really into twisting before squeezing. As you may have noticed with that new packaging on cigarettes, the surgeon general warns that twisting combined with squeezing can be hazardous to your health. The worst tihing that happened, from my perspective, was the time I asked a woman and she agreed and then asked me to beat her up.
I'm not a sado-masochist or sadist; I'm a masochist. Obliging her was, in my opinion, my duty, but I didn't like doing it at all.If you find yourself in tis position nd you, like me, will gladly accept being hit but don't want to hit someone else, do what I didn't think of doing: hit her in the breasts until she decides she doesn't want to get beat up. (And a tit twister is probably safer than a ball twister.)
If my balls feel like watermelons -- then what do watermelons feel like to a watermelon plant? Ay ay ay!
I'm actually very close to Chicago too!
Why do you want to get kicked.? OUCH
You DID notice what forum you had wandered into- right? Or did you think this forum was full of bust-ers rather than bust-ees? There are a few here but very few. And they don't ask why- they know.
Well, no pain, no gain, as they say.
Seriously, it's not always easy to explain a fetish to someone who doesn't share it. The only thing I can say is that to most of us here, being kicked in the balls (or watching others get kicked in their balls) just somehow feels right.
David B.
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http://www.ballbustinggoddess.com/Samples/Updates.html
it is really easy to get your nuuts crushed by a female just about every women in the world loves to see a man curled up holding his jewels on the floor in front of them. the wasy that i have gooten i women to kick me are i will be talking about doing something to them and mention but you would probably just kick me in the balls just put the thought into her head and keep your nuts easy to hit, annoy her a little but not enough to make her want to leave you alone all the way, play the game call mercy with her the game where you are standing in front of her you two lock hands and try to bend each others fingers of course you will win but when she says mercey keep bending not enough to break but enough to annoy and she will see your balls just hanging there waithing on a foot or knee i am been struck many times doing that women love to crush nuts it gives them power and makes you weak so any chance they get they take it just give it to them
I've spent my share of time in all sorts of bars and have never seen a woman attack a guys nuts. Many years ago in college I got into an argument with a really drunk girl. We were face to face and she never lifted a knee. She almost dumped a full glass of beer on me before her friend took it away though. At the time I hadn't yet discovered my fetish with bb. Maybe if I had I would have egged her on. But then again it would've been embarrasing to live that down in a small New England college.
-CL
Semi-Pro....
Some of the best ballbusting / cbt I've ever had, has come while I was traveling, and called a massage service. While getting a massage that would normally lead to a hand job, I calmly discuss my fetish with the young lady. About half the time, her curiosity leads her to accept my invitation for her to explore my limits - and I end up with really sore balls. And I sleep really well.
I think this calm discussion aspect is the key. If you just come out and say 'I want to be kicked in the balls', it's easy to freak out a woman as she doesn't understand why. But if you can explain why you like getting your balls punished, if it is to do with testing your limits, etc, she is more likely to be able to participate as she has a logical way to view your fetish and a way of understanding what you get out of it.
David B.
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http://www.ballbustinggoddess.com/Samples/Updates.html
i do a lot of martial arts and have got plenty of busts from girls i know by talking about self-defence. grab their wrists (lightly) and say 'what would you do now?' some of them have even asked for 1-2-1 sessions. they are great because i only use a soft elbow guard as a groin guard, and i say my reaction is to make it seem realistic.
I found that by kneeing my old gf in her box i could provoke some nice bb. She loved when i busted her cunt and also loved to give my sac a good slap or squeeze. Keep in mind however she would always try to "cup check" guys when she got drunk at bars. I def luved the oral after gettin busted and i probably wouldnt have it any other way (ie no bj to finish me off, no bb.) i think kneeing a girl in her clit is a great way to get her to retaliate.
How about this one...it is guaranteed to get a girl to knee or kick you in the balls every time. I have tried it over 100 times and it never ever fails.
The premis is I say that i am taking a survey for the local school commission, and that the school board is thinking of giving self defense courses for free to college and senior high school girls. But in order to qualify interest levels and have the courses for free we are obliged to take a survey to gage the interest level....I go on to ask a few questions about self defense in general eg: what in your opinion is the best way to defend yourself form the front ,back etc.... Have you ever seen a girl defend herself in TV or real life?. Finally I get to the question .' Were you ever curious as to how you think you would be able to defend yourself from a frontal attack? most of the girls say YES,that they are curious and would love to find out.
I then explain that to conclude the survey,there is a contest that we have tried with over 50 college students whereby a guy who is wearing a bit of protection tries to get them down on the ground from the front and that they have 30 secounds to defend themselves......and that they are aloud to do whatever they want physically to defend themselves including kicking the guy in the balls. Once the girl realises that is is part of the survey and that she is aloud to kick or knee the guy,they all want to try it very much. It never ever fails. Often to futher intice them I would say that out of 50 girls that tried over 40 were able to defend themselves by either kneeing or kicking the attacker
I could let you know some of my experiences if you wish
Please do!
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