I had a radical penectomy last May. I have a perineal urethostmy and my lymph nodes were removed in a later surgery. My wife and I have tried various methods and sexual positions. She can orgasm but I cannot.

We have watched erotic movies and even tried anal penetration with me so hopefully my prostate would be stimulated enough for me to have an orgasm. Nothing. Even rubbing the stoma has had no effect. The result is I stay extremely aroused and horney and totally frustrated.

But all is well least she orgasms a lot.