The psychology of ********** seems more interesting than the act itself. I am specifically talking about the various posts women have made in this and other thread on this topic. Women's fantasies tend to be all in their heads (as the rest of us), and not usually visually oriented. This accounts for the huge variety of erotic literature. Some stories have been written by women (one hopes!) on that Eunuch site, and it does give a eye opening peek into SOME women's fantasies on this topic.