Quote Originally Posted by try View Post
I take your point Messalina (BTW you have a lovely name, you say you come from Scotland, is it a Scots name?) and while I have fantasies about a beautiful girl doing to me what my heroine Cherry and her friends do to men in my story, I wouldn't, obviously, really want to be *********. Or have my balls put in a vice, as happens to 2 guys in the latest update to my tale.

To me ballbusting is about the total ****** subjegation of a man to a woman. She's attacking the very organs that are the literal essence of his manhood, and you can't get a more forceful rejection than that! But I don't want my heroines to be man haters, so there has to be a reason for them to bust him, he's got to be a bad guy. And then when a girl, the 'weaker' sex, puts him in his place, that's the turn on! Or at least, it works for me.
Hello Try,

How are you? Sorry, for the tardiness of this reply. For the record, I hail from the "Aud Sod". A.K.A. the "Emerald Isle", to many. However, my mother was Greek. In fact, I lived on Mikonos til I was six. This is whence comes, my name. BTW, I'm pleased you've a clear view of the distinction twixt fantasy and reality. I feel for some, the line has become... "blurry".

"To me ballbusting is"; a brutal act of violence. Also, a vicious sexual assault. The organs are not merely the metaphorical measure of a man's fortitude, the difference between a winner ("It took rocks for Frank to quit his job after buying a house") and a loser ("Frank's boss has him by the balls since he bought that house"). As you correctly point out, the testes are "The literal essence of his manhood".

Your cojones produce about 95% of your testosterone, which of course spurs sex drive and sperm production. This gives a fellow; the deep voice, musculature and facial hair that define maleness. The male body is highly dependent on testosterone. The loss of this vital hormone (absent HRT) eventually, leads to life-threatening conditions and or disease. Think, atrophy of the body's muscules and osteoperosis. Ironically, osteoperosis is thought of as a "woman's" disease!

However, (disturbingly so) ballbusting is sometime's necessary. In real life, I mean. Some men, give a woman little choice!

This is why, I can relate (somewhat) to your rationale that, your female characters have "A reason to bust" someone. However, the "turn-on" for me is "When a girl, the 'weaker' sex", ends the "career" of a wife beater or sexual predator!


Warm regards,
Messalina