snakelinux, mick_sl8ter...
You both have no idea. Obviously you have not been abused as childs, nor do you know somebody pesonally who has been.
I can just tell you to listen to Pupuce:
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Age gives you advantage.
Don't joke about it: Sexually exploiting an advantage you have over somebody is ABUSE. You don't seem to know what effects abuse has on children so shut up about it until you know.
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For me a pedophile is ...
Thank god it doesn't matter what you mean.
Believe me: The only reason you joke about it is, because you don't know the effects.
Sexual abuse is a serious issue...
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dharkbus
this is a most excellent thread
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Thanks dharkbus, I like people who enjoy a good debate.
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Age gives you advantage.
That was pupuce not me, finally. Please don't misquote me, thanks.
By the way, I was just speaking from a psychiatrist's perspective since that happens to be my favorite subject.
Finally, you act as though you or someone close to you was abused as a child and because you do not make the distinction of teenagers and children it probably happened when you were between 12-14 years old. I recommend speaking to someone about it but not me or on this forum. Being abused especially sexually messes up your mind. I know, I have relatives who have been abused sexually by their parents and there is not much in life worse than that. It can mess up your sexuality and your sense of right and wrong. If any of you have been hurt in that way please talk to someone. It will make a difference.