You both have no idea. Obviously you have not been abused as childs, nor do you know somebody pesonally who has been.
I can just tell you to listen to Pupuce:
Age gives you advantage.
Don't joke about it: Sexually exploiting an advantage you have over somebody is ABUSE. You don't seem to know what effects abuse has on children so shut up about it until you know.
For me a pedophile is ...
Thank god it doesn't matter what you mean.
Believe me: The only reason you joke about it is, because you don't know the effects.