"Girls are...", I know, sentencs shouldn't start like this, but what if it IS so?

Generally speaking I have the strong impression that most girls/women would not have much scruples doing something very harsh to you BUT...
they don't have a reason to do so and they need a reason.
They have no motiv to emasculate you or anybody.
Maybe they "play" for you if they think they owe it in some way.
Or, the simplest way, they do it because you pay for it.

Genrally girls/women don't do what they want to. It's just a different strategy. It's a social strategy, because it has to do with deals and trades. Never reveal what you really want. Get it along the way. Always keep in mind that if you got something that you wanted, then mostly you owe to somebody. But if you did something you didn't want, then somebody owes to you.
What girls/women want is people doing things for them, owing them.
And that covers sex too.

And finally, girls/women very very often are much more earnest then guys.
They think a lot. And the don't have to much interests in games/playing just for the sake of playing.


So, transfer that to your **********-fatasys.
The simple and clear situation. That is something girl/women have no real interest in. The fact that you are passive. And of course, that you don't make them an orgasm if they ******** you...