Quote Originally Posted by SadisticSara View Post
I really can't figure out why a guy would like to be in such a vulnerable, helpless situation, but it seems to really excite some guys.
Maybe some of you could tell me why you like this?

I wouldn't really ******** a guy, though. Well, not unless he was ****** me or something, and there was nothing else I could do to stop
- - - Sara
Hi,

This is my first post here and as a means of introduction, I have had some sort of ********** fantasy since I was 10 and I am 35 now. I have been in therapy off and on for 10 years, not specifically for ********** fantasies, but the topic has come up. I am no closer to understanding "why" I have these fantasies than I was 10 years ago.

I have primarily explored these fantasies with phone sex operators. One operator hung up on me because she panicked and didn't know how to proceed with my fantasy. The typical operator has had a similar response to Sadistic Sara, often being intrigued by the idea but not something that she could actually do.

I would be interested to hear from others what turns them on about this fantasy and specifically if anyone else has fantasies that go beyond **********. In my case, ********** is only the start of what a woman or women do to me or another man. Most of my fantasies also involve some some sort of dismemberment, skinning, disembowling and other tortures to the male body. An aspect of these fantasies that turn me on is that the women derive a great deal of pleasure from the screaming the man does as they are doing these things. Female pleasure in male pain and suffering I have always found erotic. I have no idea "why". From stories and other threads on other sites I have read there are common themes in my fantasies that others have had as well. I personally would like a better understanding of where such a thing comes from. I would be interested to learn from other's experience with their fantasies.