OK posts are getting a bit long and complex. To try and boil it down:

- Who are these feminist lobby groups and how do they have so much power over politicians, judges, etc.?

- Regarding VAWA, I refer you to the wikipedia article on it: "Its coverage extends to male victims of domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, and stalking."

- I agree, the law in England should be changed, however a woman would still be guilty of sexual assault. I haven't seen anything showing that feminists are opposed to changing it however.

- The prison stuff is interesting, but it was described as controversial. We are now six years on and women's prisons are still open.

I think the real question is how do you define a feminist? You talk a lot about feminist lobby groups and how feminists are behind this or support that but provide no real evidence of it. Maybe a few articles or whatever but certainly not some kind of mass movement with thousands of people behind it. Meanwhile there are plenty of 'moderate' feminists out there who wouldn't do any of the things you are saying yet you are lumping them all together.