I agree with finally. It's hard to be alone with your fantasies and though some women might tolerate it or even play something for you for them it's more like "give and take".
There are also women who act out femdom fantsies on you to please theire partner who is watching.

But beeing alone with your dreams can make men do strange things after a while or just come up with strange or really stupid ideas.
I think that is the rerason why so many of thoses guys act so... inappropriately. Who knows what stupid things are done because of such suppressed fantasies?