Quote Originally Posted by Messalina View Post
Hello Sebi40,

How are you? The name is Messalina, not Melisa. Thank you, for your promised efforts in my behalf. Indeed, I should greatly appreciate an English version. Unfortunately, I have never visited the subcontinent. I have traveled to and lived in a number majority Islamic countries. Your comments about Muslim women have some merit. However, in my experience it very much depends on the individual. There are some Muslim women who, could be quite brutal... given the chance. That is, if there would be no repercussions. A good many Muslim women are oppressed, certainly by European and North American standards.

I do not want to be in a "dominant position with " my husband. People seem to see me that way. This is because; I am older, taller and earn more money than he does. Also, I seem to have a higher social standing than my lad. Mainly, because of my first husband. I do not dominate my spouse, nor do I have any desire to. The closest we come to anything of this nature is in the bedroom. However, even there I do not 'dominate'. Rather, I like to be 'conquered'. That is, sometimes I will resist his amorous efforts til, he has 'overpowered' me. That is, by pinning me or by seducing me. BTW, I do my best to cater to the husband's kinks and fetishes.


Messalina
Hi Messalina,
Beautiful name, sorry for misspelling

I had a jung subordinate from Pakistan with a very strong tradition. His family was direct descendens from Mohammed. He was about to married and told me that he expect his wife to stay home taking care of kids, even if she was in final year of medicine faculty.
I told him that this is not fine and he told me again about his family history. Then he married her and I moved in another place.
Three years later I had a call from him. He was in USA because his wife get a job there as medical doctor. He left his job in his home country and wanted now a recommendation later from me in order to get a job in USA.
I just remembered him about his believes and thoughts before marriage. He admitted that his wife was tough and smart. So he had some arguments with his family and his own beliefs but finally followed her.

Quoting you:
sometimes I will resist his amorous efforts til, he has 'overpowered' me. That is, by pinning me or by seducing me
and
I do my best to cater to the husband's kinks and fetishes

I really love those 2 sentences. Your husband is a lucky man.

In case you have a Fetlife account and you are interested, here is mine, I will enjoy reading some of your posts or following you.

Unfortunately this site is dying, the owner left.

BR
Sebastian