Quote Originally Posted by sebi40 View Post
Hi Messalina,
Beautiful name, sorry for misspelling

I had a jung subordinate from Pakistan with a very strong tradition. His family was direct descendens from Mohammed. He was about to married and told me that he expect his wife to stay home taking care of kids, even if she was in final year of medicine faculty.
I told him that this is not fine and he told me again about his family history. Then he married her and I moved in another place.
Three years later I had a call from him. He was in USA because his wife get a job there as medical doctor. He left his job in his home country and wanted now a recommendation later from me in order to get a job in USA.
I just remembered him about his believes and thoughts before marriage. He admitted that his wife was tough and smart. So he had some arguments with his family and his own beliefs but finally followed her.

Quoting you:
sometimes I will resist his amorous efforts til, he has 'overpowered' me. That is, by pinning me or by seducing me
and
I do my best to cater to the husband's kinks and fetishes

I really love those 2 sentences. Your husband is a lucky man.

In case you have a Fetlife account and you are interested, here is mine, I will enjoy reading some of your posts or following you.

Unfortunately this site is dying, the owner left.

BR
Sebastian
Hello Sebi40,

Lovely, to hear from you. I am pleased, you realised not all Muslim women are submissive. Yes, a good many are. However, not all are willing to subordinate themselves to their husbands even under threat of violence. Sometime ago, I was working in an Islamic country in which, it was part of the accepted culture for husbands to beat their wives. One of my Islamic (male) colleagues announced and invited me to his wedding. The woman he wed is a Muslim. Also, she is an American woman who, moved to his country to care for aging relatives. She and I became close friends.

We worked together on a project to benefit refugee women and their dependents. Many of these women suffered abuse at the hands of foreign fighters and from the men in their lives. One day; my Muslim friend, an international aid worker and I were having lunch. Somehow, violence against women in that part of the world came up. Also, how systemic it was. Before I could stop her, the aid worker asked if, my Muslim friend's husband had ever mistreated her. She responded "Only once". Naturally, the woman said "What happened?". Since, my colleague's wife decided to speak on the matter, I ceased trying to quiet the aid worker. My new found friend responded "I planted my foot so far up between his legs that, he never raised a hand to me again".

The aid worker laughed and even cheered. However, my Muslim friend's face was grim. I asked the Canadian woman to excuse us, so that I could speak intimately. When she departed, I said "Tell me". She replied "I lost my temper, I lost control". I nodded in understanding. She had not 'measured' her kick, to her man's privates. Her newlywed husband had required surgery. Also, whilst it is theoretically 'possible', (in reality) it is very unlikely they will be able to have children.

I am pleased matters seemed to have worked out, for your Pakistani subordinate. Indeed, I am especially gratified to learn his wife did not sacrifice years of education and training, to a sexist tradition.

"I really love those two sentences. Your husband is a lucky man. Thank you. I like to think that, we enjoy a symbiotic relationship.

No, I do not "have a Fetlife account".

Messalina