Quote Originally Posted by sebi40 View Post
Hi Messalina,


Thank you very much for your comprehensive and cheeky answers


I need to underline that I never thought to unfortunate event of testicular cancer.
I was more in line with submissive males and/or dominant females that have this cas*tration fetish.
I also know one couple where he decided to perform cas*tration. They went somewhere and did it as medical procedure after many years of cas*tration and cuckold erotic play as part of BDSM games.
However he lost his lust of playing some time after cas*tration, so their relation was somehow affected.


Than seeing gelding only from pure erotic perspective, having a submissive male and dominate female partner / spouse when both dream for it as a sort of ultimate pleasure, life after can pose some complications.
That was somehow my target toward you because you are female on a ball-busting site, so I just assume you may have this type of fetish.


1001 of Arabian nights it was good from this perspective because there all castrations have that erotic side.
Otherwise of course I have my fears of any diseases including testicular cancer


Again, I really enjoyed your answers


BR and stay safe
Sebastian
Hello Sebi40,

You are welcome re; my response. Yes, many people think of gelding in the context you mention. The outcome experienced by the couple you referenced does not surprise me. Many people who view orchidectomy thru the prism of a fetish / kink, do not fully consider the real world consequences of their action. Testosterone is in large measure responsible for the male libido. Absent the organs that produce the majority amount of this vital androgen, 98% of men would have no sex drive at all. Also, there can be grave emotional / psychological consequences re; gender identification and mental well-being.

BDSM has never been an interest of mine. I do have a 'fascination-with-ca'stration'. In the real world, it is in the context of dealing with recidivist sexual predators. Please understand, I am NOT advocating orchidectomies as punishment. Rather, an individual would volunteer for the procedure, as an alternative to prison. The operation would only be authorised after exhaustive psychological examination.

As to the entertainment / kink perspective; I favour the r*ape-revenge sub-genre of exploitation films. Particularly, those movies in which a survivor of r*ape avenges' herself by gelding the man (or men) who, violated her. Ideally, she would ca'strate an assailant during the course of defending herself. I would prefer the scene not be depicted in a gory or 'messy' manner. This kind of thing is erotic to me. However, rarely is a man's life depicted after his gelding. To me, this is even more intriguing! I have only viewed such cinema works or telly programmes once or twice. For what ever it maybe worth; I have never derived pleasure of any kind from so-called "ball-busting". If a woman's life or virtue is not in immediate danger, a strike to the testes is simply a vicious brutal sexual assault. No one would laugh or cheer a scene in which, a man punched or kicked a woman in the breast or crotch.

Somehow, I doubt "1001 of Arabian nights" depicted (or described) ca*stration, in ways I would consider erotic.

It gratifies me, my ramblings are pleasing to you. I would hope, you also found them informative.


Be well and safe,

Messalina