Quote Originally Posted by Messalina View Post
Hello Sebi40,

You are welcome re; my response. Yes, many people think of gelding in the context you mention. The outcome experienced by the couple you referenced does not surprise me. Many people who view orchidectomy thru the prism of a fetish / kink, do not fully consider the real world consequences of their action. Testosterone is in large measure responsible for the male libido. Absent the organs that produce the majority amount of this vital androgen, 98% of men would have no sex drive at all. Also, there can be grave emotional / psychological consequences re; gender identification and mental well-being.

BDSM has never been an interest of mine. I do have a 'fascination-with-ca'stration'. In the real world, it is in the context of dealing with recidivist sexual predators. Please understand, I am NOT advocating orchidectomies as punishment. Rather, an individual would volunteer for the procedure, as an alternative to prison. The operation would only be authorised after exhaustive psychological examination.

As to the entertainment / kink perspective; I favour the r*ape-revenge sub-genre of exploitation films. Particularly, those movies in which a survivor of r*ape avenges' herself by gelding the man (or men) who, violated her. Ideally, she would ca'strate an assailant during the course of defending herself. I would prefer the scene not be depicted in a gory or 'messy' manner. This kind of thing is erotic to me. However, rarely is a man's life depicted after his gelding. To me, this is even more intriguing! I have only viewed such cinema works or telly programmes once or twice. For what ever it maybe worth; I have never derived pleasure of any kind from so-called "ball-busting". If a woman's life or virtue is not in immediate danger, a strike to the testes is simply a vicious brutal sexual assault. No one would laugh or cheer a scene in which, a man punched or kicked a woman in the breast or crotch.

Somehow, I doubt "1001 of Arabian nights" depicted (or described) ca*stration, in ways I would consider erotic.

It gratifies me, my ramblings are pleasing to you. I would hope, you also found them informative.


Be well and safe,

Messalina

Dear Messalina

I see that you are trying to fit your fetish in politically correct area
You are focus on sexual offenders and yes it is a general debate if those should be gelded in exchange for prison.
Also even if you are considering yourself not interested in BDSM, you are trying to follow BDSM SSC rules: Safe, Sane & Consensual
You are not considering to cas*trate a sexual offender without his consent(Consensual), using a medical facility(Safe) and having a psychological check on the guy(Sane).

Regarding R*ape followed by Revenge movies I also saw some of them but not as much interested because those movies do not follow any of SSC rules.

I am interested in erotic fight as you describe playing with your husband. I did this in various occasions (erotic fight workshops) but in this type of fight it is fair for a female to target male genitals, otherwise won´t be fair since a male is generally stronger than a female. Again SSC rules are in place.

General dirty fight even if not Consensual it is something I enjoy. I have a separate thread for this. In this case I enjoy any inflicted pain in erogenous zones to both female or male.
This not a politically correct fetish I have to admit but when I was a kid a girl kicked me in the balls and win a fight, also later I found females excited about receiving slaps or kicks in te pussy so yes doing this on the street it is clear not OK but doing it in private you can move along (like the fight with your husband)

All the best in 2021

Sebastian